Cuppa Tea

I’m developing a new skill, and it’s becoming a habit. I’ve served tea twice this week, I’ve been served tea twice this week, and I’ll be serving tea again tonight. As that will make a total of 5 times this week, here are my…

Top 5 Tea Observations:

  • You can’t ever serve just tea; you must also have something to eat – cake, brownies, muffins, scones…. homemade is best.
  • Five Roses brand is the tea of choice, not Rooibos, as I would have thought.
  • Tea makes people talk. I think it’s that we all just like to have something in our hands.
  • If you don’t have milk, or better yet cream, just don’t even serve tea. Milk is half the equation.
  • Tea happens even if the electricity is off… good thing we have a gas stove.

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Down the Road and Back

Before we left the States a few people gave us great ideas for blog posts. Things like, what does a “normal” day look like for you, or what do you do for date night. So I’ve been trying to think about what things are quickly becoming “normal” for us here so that I can tell you about them before they’re so normal that I don’t realize they might be interesting. First on the list: driving.

We’ve done a bit of driving since we got here, and I’ve discovered that this is one area where I’ve had more trouble adjusting than I thought. It’s the small things, like which side of the car I get in. The steering wheel is on the right side, as they drive on the left side of the road here, so I have to stop (sometimes literally stop moving) and think about where I’m going. Matt’s done all of the real driving, so my side is the passenger side – the left. And sitting on the left side has really confused me where it concerns the rear view mirror. It’s set so that Matt, on the right side, can see behind us, but something in my American driver trained brain thinks that because I’m on the left side, I should be able to see out that mirror! I think culture shock is found in little things like this. They don’t sound all that exciting when you blog about them, but they’re the little things that catch you by surprise in the first few weeks. =)

In other car news, I have driven a couple times now. We’re living at the Biedebachs’ house, and they’re located on a large compound with 20+ other families. I have driven from one end of the compound to the other end, and then from that end back home. Impressive, eh?! I’ll be doing it again tonight and doubling my Malawi driving experience. Someday I might graduate to outside the compound…

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Driving in town… not bad. Pretty good actually, and relatively orderly. So long as I figure out which way to go on a traffic circle, we’ll be ok.

Driving 2
Driving downtown… people and cars everywhere, and no one really pays attention to street lights or right of way. But honestly, still not bad if you’re willing to go on the offensive and defensive at the same time.

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Driving outside of town… suggestion: 4 wheel drive and wear your seatbelt – potholes are guaranteed!

Living Deliberately

We were having dinner with Beck and Marley Evans the other night, and Beck said something that helped solidify my thoughts on living in Malawi. He used the word “deliberately,” and it made me think about all of our experiences here in Malawi to this point, and what people had told us to expect over the coming weeks and months. Grocery shopping, driving across town, building a relationship, having my personal time of Bible study… all of these things are slower than we experienced them in the US, and they take more intentional thought and planning. You have to be deliberate about them, and I like that.

I have never wanted to be someone who just does the next thing without thinking about it. There is a depth and richness to living deliberately, particularly for the Christian. Rather than being caught up in materialism, self-centeredness, or peer-presure, the Christian has the responsibility to live in deliberate obedience to Christ, who has made life rich with meaning and purpose. Living deliberately as a Christian makes me stop and see God at work around me, and makes me carefully consider my walk before Him and my testimony before others.

So I’m thankful for this slow, deliberate life in Africa. It makes me stop and consider my obedience to Christ, as well as the wonderful meaning and purpose Christ has given my life.

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Some Assembly Required

In our blog post Home in a Box, we told the amazing story of how God provided for our container to arrive in Malawi and be released and unpacked within 2 days. Well, here’s what it all looks like now:

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The container was unloaded into Brian’s office, so it’s basically a room stuffed with boxes now. We took a couple hours this morning to sort through everything and check for any damaged or missing items. We handled every box, opened a few, poked and prodded the larger items, and as far as we can tell everything made it and the only damage was a very small pin missing from our dining room table. I’m not at all worried about that, because I’m married to Mr. Fix-It!

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And yes, there were a few items that have returned home to Africa…

Now we just need to find a house!

Treasure Hunting

We haven’t even been here for 12 hours, and we’ve already had our first adventure! Not that that surprises me, but this was a fun one, thanks to our friend Lukas.

Lukas had come to Malawi just a couple weeks ago with a short-term missions group from Grace Community Church. When he got back, he came to our going-away party, and gave Matt an envelope that he said we couldn’t open until we got to Malawi. Well, we were so curious, that it was about the first thing we did when we got here.

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The note told us to look under the night stand in our room…

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and what we found was a treasure map! So we followed the map to behind the water tower…

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to where “X” marked the spot, and Matt started digging!

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Not too far down, we found an old paint bucket, and inside – treasure! Lukas had left for us his extra kwacha (currency), and told us to go out to dinner. Thanks Lukas! That was awesome!

Arriving in Malawi

We’re here! In California time, we arrived at about 12:30am, and here in Malawi, that was about 9:30am on Wednesday the 20th. We had no problems with our connections, all our luggage made it, and we got to enjoy an 8 hour layover in London!

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The official “this is proof we’re in Malawi” picture. Notice the African man and the brick buildings with thatch roofs. And if you look closely, you’ll notice that we look really tired!

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Our layover in London was dedicated entirely to getting Matt into Westminster Abbey. This was attempt #5, and I’m happy to say MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! You can’t take pictures inside the abbey, so we had to settle for a picture outside, but with the tickets as evidence that we really did go in. And we did find the tomb of David Livingstone, explorer and missionary throughout Malawi and most of southeast Africa. =)

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It was a great trip! We enjoyed the travels, but it’s really nice to be here now, to finally be in Malawi.

We’re tired now, and after a couple more adventures, we’ll probably go to bed a little bit early and try to get as much rest as possible. We have only a few short days with Brian before he leaves to be with his very expectant wife in South Africa, so we need to be as alert as possible for those few days!

How to Move to Africa

Specific Instructions for Those Desiring to Move to Africa

1. Find one large living room – thanks Mama Flo!
2. Put everything you own in the USA in said living room.
3. Remove all items that are not Africa-worthy.
4. Pack all items in 4 boxes, distributing weight evenly – thanks both moms!
5. Weigh all boxes – thanks Dad Smith!
6. Remove all items that are too heavy to be Africa-worthy.
7. Repeat #5 and #6 for a long time.
8. Put the boxes in the car and head for the airport!

Moving and packing

We’ve completed through #7! We’re just finishing up the last couple things we need to do, and then we’re off to the airport! Our flight leaves at about 5:30pm, in just a few short hours! We’ll update when we arrive! =)

Got Support?

For those of you who haven’t heard last week’s amazing news about how God provided for us to leave for Malawi in less than three weeks from now, you really should take a moment to read our most recent newsletter!

got support
Got support? Yes! God has provided provisional support so that we can make the move to Malawi, and we’ve spent the last week marveling at a faithful God who takes care of us beyond all we can hope or imagine! We know that we couldn’t have orchestrated events to bring about what God has done in the last few weeks! No matter how hard we worked there is NO WAY we could have cleared all our paperwork and our container in Malawi in 36 hours. And then there was our support. We’d been raising support for 6 months; God provided what we needed in just one minute. We’re definitely keeping track of what God’s done, and we’ll look back on these days as testimony of God’s powerful goodness!

Home in a Box

There almost aren’t words to describe how excited we are about what the Lord has accomplished. Our last blog post related some pretty amazing events – after 2 years of trying to get International Bible Fellowship registered with the Malawian government, and 9 months of waiting and holding on to our visa paperwork, the Lord orchestrated the accomplishment of both of these in just a few hours. Wow! What an amazing work the Lord did to get all that taken care of in the perfect time. In the back of our minds though, we knew there was one more hurdle that we were facing – the container. It had arrived in Lilongwe, but the process of clearing a container can be long and arduous. I’ve heard of people waiting 8 months for their container to clear. On top of that, we’d been counseled to hold $2,000-$3,000 to pay duty fees.

As much as the Lord has stretched and grown our faith and we have seen Him faithful so many times, I do have to confess that this thought passed through my mind: “We’ve already used up our miracle on the paperwork.” Oh ye of little faith! And so the Lord proved Himself faithful and gracious far beyond my small understanding…

Brian Biedebach went right to work on getting the container cleared. He talked to people on the phone, went to see other people, waited, called the people back… he worked really hard. And the Lord paved the way with every step. The answers that at first were “absolutely not,” became “call me back at 2pm,” and ended up being “no problem, we’ll be there at 3pm.” The crane operator just happened to be available, the men working for Brian stayed late to unload, and our container was entirely unloaded the day after our visa paperwork was processed. The container had been in the city only 2 days, and it was cleared and finished, with no bribes and no delays.

This is a miracle in and of itself, but even more amazing – they charged no duty. We were granted an exception. We didn’t ask why, and we don’t know exactly why. Everything in the container is a personal item, and technically we are allowed to bring in personal items duty-free for the first year we live in Malawi, but this never actually happens. All we know is that the Lord has been very kind to us. We are so amazed at God’s wonderful grace to us!

So everything is there! It’s all unloaded into Brian’s office, just waiting for us! We’re the only thing that’s missing at this point. We’re still waiting on monthly support, but after such great miracles in Malawi and God’s demonstration of care and kindness towards us, we know God can provide that too. Our God is much bigger than the small things that I worry about. I’ve been reminded that our lives (and possessions) are in His hands and God chooses to be kind to us in His own time. I’m willing to wait for that.

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Everything was packed up in our apartment on January 19th….

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… just waiting to be packed in the container on January 20th.

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The man who packed the container joked that he qualified for this job because he didn’t go to college but spent all day playing Tetras. Let me tell you, he was REALLY good at his job!

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Who knows if we would ever see it all again? Between pirates and stormy seas, we didn’t know what our chances really were.

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While driving through Seattle on The Great Floreen Roadtrips, we spotted container ships in the harbor. There are millions of containers! Somewhere out there in the great wide ocean was our little container.

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We tracked the container online from Houston, to the Bahamas, to South Africa, all the way to Beira, Mozambique. From there it was trucked to Lilongwe, Malawi. Click on the map to see all the details in a Google map we created.

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We’ve almost forgotten what we shipped. Wow! Bookshelves! I forgot we had those! And books! =) And the Lord has provided for it all to arrive. Praise the Lord! His kindness to us is far beyond our understanding!

We're official!!!

The picture below is a screen capture of our Skype conversation with Brian Biedebach this morning, and is an answer to prayer that we’ve been waiting on for a long time. We have our official paperwork to be in Malawi!

TEP

More than that, this paperwork represents other things that God has accomplished on our behalf and on behalf of International Bible Fellowship. In order to get our Temporary Employment Permit (TEP), seen above!, the church had to first be registered as an official entity in Malawi. Brian and Kondwani had been working to get the church registered with the government for the past year and a half. They made dozens of trips, resubmitting lost paperwork, tracked down officials, and worked really hard at this! It wasn’t until THIS MORNING that the church was finally recognized as an official entity in Malawi. Brian went straight to the immigration office and file for our TEP. Yay!

And there’s more! Our container arrived in Lilongwe yesterday! In order to clear the container, Brian had to have all our paperwork in order – including our TEP. Praise the Lord for His excellent timing! More on the container and its ride on the wild seas soon!